If she denied, don't angry be Sabar (patient)

If she denied, don't angry be Sabar (patient) 

Be patient within the limitations that are owned by our partners. Not everyone will be able in a moment to understand what we want. That's all it took that long process. 

As a student who would not easily understand what the purpose of her study. After a long time before she understood what it means to learn it. But the teacher would never leave his students and is always ready to give a lesson anytime and anywhere. Although the lesson was over many years ago.

That tebaik patient. There is wisdom behind the patient. God will not be in vain to create and make something on this earth. Take this as a field of charity for us. As the instructions given by the Prophet Muhammad in order for a man to be patient in the face of temptation wife.

In a hadith narrated "Who patience with humility and character of his wife, then Allah will give a reward for what was given to the Prophet Ayub U.S. in connection with his trial".

A husband is the leader in its RT. For the husband must not neglect your wife and your family.
Because your wife:

• Are creatures of God who has tenderness.
• Which is made of ribs mu.
• He was not created from your legs to step over thee,
• He also was not created from your head to be superior over you,
• But from your side to be equal (and close) with you,
• From under the arm to protect thee,
• And close your heart to your beloved.

In Sahih Bukhari Volume 4, Book 55, Number 548:
Narrated Abu Huraira:

Allah's Apostle said, "Treat women well, woman was created from a rib, and the very curve of the rib is the top, so, if you have to try to straighten it, it will break, but if you leave just like that, he will remain crooked. So memperlakukanlah women well. "

Wife in thinking and understand something rather weak compared to her husband because she was fated more by feel .... so the woman of understanding about something is much longer than men. And the best leader is patient and gentle .... who always guide who leads. Do not leave it in the middle of the street / dumped because they limitations and moral humility owned by his wife.

Dr. 'Aidh al-Qarni give an advice in his book entitled La Tahzan

"You do not go forward, in particular, the issue of marriage except in terms of religion, beauty and personality have been received. For the marriage issue is a matter of survival of the woman, which you have decided to accept it, and not something that is when it is no longer worthwhile, then thrown away for various reasons ".