The Damage of valentine Day for the Couple

Many people will remember Valentine's Day. The day is celebrated as a manifestation of one's love. Embodiments not just for a young couple who are in love. However, the day has a broader meaning again. Among them affection among others, the husband-wife, parent-child, siblings and others. So-called Valentine's Day is also the day of love.

The History or Ancestor of Valentine's Day


Actually there are many versions that spread regarding the origin of Valentine's Day. However, in general, most people know about the historical events that began when ancient Romans commemorate a great day every February 15 called Lupercalia. Lupercalia celebration is a series of purification ceremonies in the ancient Roman period (February 13 to 18). The first two days, dedicated to the goddess of love (queen of feverish love) Juno Februata. On this day, the youth draw the names of the girl in the box. Then every youth take names at random and the girl whose name out should be a partner for a year to have fun and be the object of entertainment. On February 15, they requested protection from interference wolf god Lupercalia. During this ceremony, the youth whipped person with animal skins and women scramble to whip whipped because of the assumption it would make them more fertile.

When Catholic Christianity became the state religion in Rome, the Roman rulers and religious leaders of the Roman Catholic adopt this ceremony and color it with shades of Christianity, such as replacing the names of the girl with the names of the Pope or Pastor. Among the supporters was the Emperor Constantine and Pope Gregory I (The Encyclopedia Britannica, subtitles: Christianity). In order to get closer again to the Christian doctrine, in 496 AD Pope Gelasius I made this ancient Roman ceremony to Day of Celebration Church by the name of Saint Valentine's Day in honor of St. Valentine who incidentally died on February 14 (The World Book Encyclopedia 1998).

The relationship between Love & Care Day and Valentine's Day


The Catholic Encyclopedia Vol. XV subtitles St. Valentine explained that there are three names Valentine died on February 14, one of which is depicted as dead in the Roman period. However, there was never any explanation of who the "St. Valentine "is meant, also with a story that has never known the tip-base for each source tells a different story.

According to the first version, the Emperor Claudius II ordered the arrest and jailing St. Valentine for expressing his god is Isa Al-Masih and refusing to worship the gods of the Romans. People who crave St.Valentine prayer and then wrote a letter and put it in the prison bars.

The second version relates that Emperor Claudius II considers single young soldiers more resilient and stronger in the battlefield than married people. Last emperor forbade young men to marry, but St.Valentine break and secretly married many young so he also was arrested and hanged on February 14, 269 AD (The World Book Encyclopedia, 1998).Other versions tell that the evening before St. Valentine will fall as a martyr (died as a hero for fighting for the trust), he wrote a small declaration of love he gave to the prison warden says "From Valentinusmu". (Source discussion above: http://id.wikipedia.org/ and others)From the above we can draw the conclusion:Valentine's Day comes from ancient Roman religious ceremony filled with paganism and shirk.Ancient Roman ceremony on top eventually converted into a day of celebration of the church with the name of Saint Valentine's Day on the initiative of Pope Gelasius I. So valentine event into a religious ritual that changed Nashrani warnings being dated February 14, coinciding with the death of St. Valentine.Valentine's Day is also a day of tribute to Nashrani figure is considered a fighter and defender of love.On development in modern times, disguised with decorated valentine celebration called "day of love".It is ironic indeed the condition of Muslims today. Some people might already know the reality of history above. As if they close their eyes and stated one should not celebrate Valentine's Day is actually the forerunner of pagan ritual. It is fitting for the Muslims to think, not appropriate that they celebrate the day after clearly evident that the ritual valentine is a non-Muslim ritual even originate from pagan rituals.

Next we will see a variety of existing damage on Valentine's Day.

First Damage: Celebrating Valentine Means Mimicking culture HEATHEN

Islam has forbade us to imitate the infidels (read: tasyabbuh). This prohibition contained in various paragraphs, can also be found in some of the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, and this is also the consensus of the ulama (read: ijma'). This was mentioned by Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah in the book he Iqtidho 'Ash Shiroth Al Mustaqim (Ta'liq: Dr. Nasir bin' Abd al-Karim Al 'Aql, published Wizarotusy Syu'un Al Islamiyah).

Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam ordered that we menyelisihi Jews and Christians. He sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,


إِنَّ الْيَهُودَ وَالنَّصَارَى لاَ يَصْبُغُونَ ، فَخَالِفُوهُمْ

"Those Jews and Christians do not want to change the gray, then selisihlah them." (HR. Bukhari no. 3462 and Muslim no. 2103) This hadith shows us that menyelisihi Jews and Christians in general and in the form menyelisihi them are in gray matter. (Iqtidho ', 1/185)
 

In another hadith, the Prophet describes in general so that we do not imitate the infidels. He sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,

مَنْ تَشَبَّهَ بِقَوْمٍ فَهُوَ مِنْهُمْ

"Whoever imitates a people is one including part of them." (HR. Ahmad and Abu Dawud. Shaykh al-Islam in Iqtidho '[p. 1/269] saying that the sanad of this hadith jayid / nice. Shaykh Al Albani said that the hadith this shohih sebagaiman in Irwa'ul Gholil no. 1269). It has become clear in advance that Valentine's Day is a celebration of paganism, and then adopted into religious rituals Nashrani. Celebrate it means it has imitate them.
Damage Two: Attend Celebrations HEATHEN not characteristic of the Faithful

God Almighty himself has characterized the nature of the believers. They are the ones who do not attend the ritual or celebration of the disbelievers and this means it should not Muslims celebrate the festivals of other faiths sort of valentine. Hopefully the following paragraph could be an afterthought for us all.

Allah Ta'ala says,


وَالَّذِينَ لَا يَشْهَدُونَ الزُّورَ وَإِذَا مَرُّوا بِاللَّغْوِ مَرُّوا كِرَامًا

"And those who did not witness the act zur, and if they meet with (the people) are deeds that are not beneficial, they went through (only) to preserve the honor of him." (QS. Al Furqan [25]: 72)Ibnul Jauziy in Zaadul granular said that there are eight of opinion on the meaning of the phrase "not witness the act zur", the opinion that there is not contradictory because those opinions only deliver a variety of actions zur. Among the existing opinion that "did not witness the act zur" is not attended the celebration of the polytheists. This is what is said by Ar Robi 'bin Anas.Thus, the above verse is a compliment to those who did not attend the celebration of the polytheists. If you do not attend the celebration is a laudable thing, then this means doing the celebration is an act reprehensible and including 'disgrace (See Iqtidho', 1/483). So, celebrate Valentine's Day is not a hallmark of the faithful because obviously it is not a feast day Muslims.Damage Third: glorify the warrior Love Will Gather With him at Judgment Day LaterIf a person loves Allah and His Messenger, then he will get the following virtues.From Anas bin Malik, he said that someone asked the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam,

مَتَّى السَّاعَةُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ

"When going on the Day of Resurrection, O Messenger of Allah?"

He sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,


مَا أَعْدَدْتَ لَهَا

"What have you prepared for it?"

The man replied,


مَا أَعْدَدْتُ لَهَا مِنْ كَثِيرِ صَلاَةٍ وَلاَ صَوْمٍ وَلاَ صَدَقَةٍ ، وَلَكِنِّى أُحِبُّ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ

"I'm not preparing to face the day with a lot of prayer, fasting lots and lots of charity. But I prepare is love of Allah and His Messenger. "

He sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,


أَنْتَ مَعَ مَنْ أَحْبَبْتَ

"(Then) you will be with the people you love." (HR. Bukhari and Muslim)

In another narration in Saheeh Bukhari, Anas said,


فَمَا فَرِحْنَا بِشَىْءٍ فَرَحَنَا بِقَوْلِ النَّبِىِّ – صلى الله عليه وسلم – « أَنْتَ مَعَ مَنْ أَحْبَبْتَ » . قَالَ أَنَسٌ فَأَنَا أُحِبُّ النَّبِىَّ – صلى الله عليه وسلم – وَأَبَا بَكْرٍ وَعُمَرَ ، وَأَرْجُو أَنْ أَكُونَ مَعَهُمْ بِحُبِّى إِيَّاهُمْ ، وَإِنْ لَمْ أَعْمَلْ بِمِثْلِ أَعْمَالِهِمْ

"We is not never felt elated as our joy when he heard the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam: Anta ma'a man ahbabta (You will be shared with the people you love)."

Anas also said,


فَأَنَا أُحِبُّ النَّبِىَّ – صلى الله عليه وسلم – وَأَبَا بَكْرٍ وَعُمَرَ ، وَأَرْجُو أَنْ أَكُونَ مَعَهُمْ بِحُبِّى إِيَّاهُمْ ، وَإِنْ لَمْ أَعْمَلْ بِمِثْلِ أَعْمَالِهِمْ

"Then I love the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, Abu Bakr and' Umar. I hope to be with them because of my love for them, although I can not do good as their deeds. "Compare, what if a loved and adored was a prominent Nashrani considered as defenders and fighters love at a time when the king forbade young men to marry. Valentine was the one as a hero and a fighter at the time. Look at the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam above: "Then you are with people you love." If you are a Muslim, which would you choose, gathered together people with characters or pious Christians can obviously pagan?Who wants to be collected on the day of Judgment together with unbelievers [?] May be food for thought for you, O admirers Valentine!Damage Fourth: Congratulations Affects fall into shirk and Maksiat"Valentine" is actually derived from the Latin word meaning: "the Mighty, the Most Powerful and Almighty". This word is addressed to Nimrod and Lupercus, god of the Romans. (From various sources)Therefore, consciously or not, if we ask people to be "To be my valentine (Be valentineku)", meaning the same as we are asking people to be "the Almighty". Obviously this offense is kesyirikan large, equating the creature with the Creator, turn the culture of worship to idols.We have also pointed out at the outset that Valentine's Day is a celebration clearly Nashrani, even it was originally a pagan ritual. Therefore, congratulated the day of love or congratulations in the feast of the other infidel is something that is forbidden by the consensus of the ulama (read: ijma 'of the Muslims), as it was stated by Ibn Qoyyim rahimahullah in his book Ahkamu Ahlidz dhimma (1 / 441, Ash Syamilah). He rahimahullah said, "As congratulated syi'ar-syi'ar kufr that are specific to the unbelievers (like congratulate Christmas or Valentine's day, pen) is something that is forbidden by ijma '(agreement) of the Muslims. An example is congratulated feast and fasting they like to say, 'Hopefully today is the day that bless you,' or to be congratulated on their big day and such. If indeed those who say it can survive infidelity, but he was not going to get away from things that are forbidden. Holiday greeting like this to them just the same as we congratulate him on his prostrate they did on the cross, even such a thing greater sin in the sight of Allah. Congratulating this kind is hated by God than someone congratulated those who drink, kill people, commit adultery, or congratulations on other sinners. "Damage Fifth: Valentines Day Being Day Excitement fornicateValentine's Day celebrations in recent times a shift. If in the Roman times, is closely related to the world of gods and mythological astray, then in the Christian period used as part of celebrations of religious symbols, then at the present time is synonymous with youth promiscuity. Starting from the simplest such as parties, dating, exchanging gifts until penghalalan legally practice adultery. All in the name of the spirit of love.In the spirit of Valentine's day, there was a belief that doing immoral and religious prohibitions like courtship, holding hands, hugging, kissing, even sexual relations outside of marriage among fellow teenagers be allowed. The reason, it is an expression of affection. Na'udzu billah dzalik min.Though approaching adultery forbidden, let alone do. Allah Ta'ala says,

وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا الزِّنَا إِنَّهُ كَانَ فَاحِشَةً وَسَاءَ سَبِيلًا

"And do not approach adultery; in fact adultery is a heinous act. And an evil way. "(QS. Al Isro '[17]: 32)In Jalalain said that the prohibition in this verse louder than words, 'Do not do it'. This means that if we approach adultery should not be, let alone to commit adultery, was clearly more forbidden.Damage Sixth: Mimicking deeds of SatanBy the day of Valentine-lah a wide variety of chocolates, flowers, gifts, gifts and souvenirs sells. How much money are wasted when it was. When in fact the property can still be spent for other purposes that are more useful, or could even wherewithal to people who need to be fruitful rewards. However, other wills lust. Satanic more than happy to follow than other things. That waste is done when it may be billions of rupiah spent when it is the entire population of Indonesia, just to celebrate Valentine's Day. Do not they pay attention to the word of God,

وَلا تُبَذِّرْ تَبْذِيرًا إِنَّ الْمُبَذِّرِينَ كَانُوا إِخْوَانَ الشَّيَاطِينِ

"And do not squander (your wealth) in wantonness. Lo-waster wasters that are brothers of Satan. "(QS. Al Isro '[17]: 26-27). The point is that they resemble the devil in this regard. Ibn Mas'ud and Ibn 'Abbas said, "Tabdzir (waste) is menginfakkan something in the wrong way." (See Tafsir Al Quran Al' Azhim)CoverThat was part of the damage on Valentine's Day, from paganism, kesyirikan, ritual Nashrani, adultery and extravagance. Actually, love and affection are exalted in that day was something false that will deprave and religious norms. Note also that Valentine's Day is not only denied by Islamic leaders but also by other religions. As the news we get from the internet that Valentine's Day was also denied in India is predominantly Hindu. The reason is that Valentine's Day can be destructive to the values ​​and norms of social life. We said: "Only those who closed his heart and deify the passions are reluctant to accept the truth."Therefore, we remind that the Muslims did not join in celebrating Valentine's Day, should not congratulate Valentine's day, nor should help enliven this event with the purchase, send a card, print, and sponsoring the event since it is helping in sin and wickedness. Remember, every person should be afraid of the wrath of Allah Ta'ala. Hopefully this can spread to the other Muslims who do not know. May God give taufik and guidance to us all.Alhamdulillahilladzi bi ni'matihi tatimmush sholihaat. Wa shollallahu 'Alihi ala Muhammad wa' ala alihi wa wa sallam shohbihi.



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